Lesbian Blogs

With a passion for helping lesbian couples experience outrageously satisfying relationships and lives, This Lesbian Blogs about all things lesbian. Sometimes silly, sometimes fun, sometimes inspiring, but mostly This Lesbian Blogs about helpful tips and strategies to keep your lesbian relationship growing in a positive direction. 

No Common Interests in Relationships

No Common Interests in Relationships

No Common Interests in Relationships? Sometimes couples express concern about having no common interests in relationships with their partners. Last week, I visited two large arenas in Texas (AT&T Center and Toyota Center) where I paid ten times more for my stadium...

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Why You Find Yourself Saying What You Don’t Mean

Why You Find Yourself Saying What You Don’t Mean

Do you ever find yourself saying what you don't mean?   Have you ever noticed that when we are most afraid of getting emotionally hurt, our natural instinct is to behave in ways that actually make things worse, not better? When we feel we are being blamed, our...

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Imago Therapy and my Imago Match

Because I am certified to provide imago therapy, and I help couples unravel how they become an imago match when a couple comes to me for help with their relationship, one of the first things I ask is, "What did you have for dinner last night?" It is amazing how much I...

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12 To-Do’s for a Better Year

12 To-Do’s for a Better Year

Twelve To-Dos for a better year. ____Make a list of 100 things that bring me joy.____Tell (email, call, write) 3 people and thank them for being them.____Learn how to train my mind to work for me, not against me.      (Sign up for The Law of Attraction class /...

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36 Questions To Fall in Love went viral, but does it work?

The 36 Questions Challenge

The 36 Questions Challenge The 36 Questions Challenge is an invitation to connect to someone... to anyone.  These are the same 36 Questions that went viral in 2015 after Mandy Len Catron shared a story about how her and her now boyfriend, used these 36 questions as an...

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Break up Advice:  Dating Again, After a Breakup

Break up Advice: Dating Again, After a Breakup

When should I start dating again, after a breakup? When a relationship ends, one of two things is typically happening.  One, you are being spared something (such as a life with someone who is not well-suited to be your partner); or you are being prepared for something...

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How House Shopping is Like Lesbian Dating, Or Not

How House Shopping is Like Lesbian Dating, Or Not

Lesbian Dating and House Shopping One of the things I love to do in my spare time is peruse new houses on the market, visit new model homes, and drive through new and different neighborhoods.  And of course I also enjoy HGTV house shows. Lately I started thinking...

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5 More Love Languages

5 More Love Languages

Five More Love Languages Reflections by Michele O'Mara I consider the five love languages, described by Gary Chapman in his book, The Five Love Languages, to be essential reading for all couples. Yet, something is missing.  Read on to learn about five more languages...

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Gender Pronouns:  It’s good to ask.

Gender Pronouns: It’s good to ask.

What are your preferred gender pronouns? As a gender therapist, I am aware that use of gender pronouns (he, him, her, she, his, hers, etc.) are critically important all of us, not just gender variant folks.  If you are reading this, and you identify as a male and look...

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What is the law of attraction?

What is the law of attraction?

What is the law of attraction? The law of attraction is not a rule, or something you must follow, it is more like a truth that when understood, can dramatically change your life.  It's sort of like the idea of gravity.  When you understand how gravity works, you no...

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