Building a Happy Lesbian*** Relationship
Building a happy relationship is a conscious effort. It doesn’t just happen. This does not mean it has to be work, or it has to be hard. Ideally, it will not be super hard, especially if you are smart. This Happy Relationship Series is designed to help you increase your Relationship IQ. Look for a new strategy, lesson, or concept every week.
Love is a given.
(***Note: Because I work with more lesbian couples than heterosexual couples, do not be fooled by my emphasis on lesbian relationships. I am speaking to all couples. It’s just that, rather than have lesbians adapt to hetero-focused language to fit their relationship, I am offering heterosexuals an opportunity to have fun with this process of substitution and adapting during this series, which my blog series: 52 Strategies to Build a Happy Lesbian Relationship.)
Love is not a strategy for a happy relationship, it is essential. Love is to a relationship what lungs are to a human body. If you expect to have a healthy human body, you assume it comes equipped with lungs. Love comes standardly with relationships. This is not something to learn, strive for or improve. It just is.
How you exercise love, the way you use love for good, and your ability to express your love, now that’s a whole other story. One we will explore over the upcoming weeks and months.
Whether you are a heterosexual, gay, lesbian, or mixed orientation couple, this information will speak to you. Relationships can vary greatly, yet some of the most essential ingredients to a happy relationship apply to all couples.
Cheers to building strong happy relationship building muscles!