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5 More Love Languages

   Five More Love Languages Reflections by Michele O'Mara I consider the five love languages, described by Gary Chapman in his book, The Five Love Languages, to be good information for all couples. Yet, something is missing. Read on to learn about five more...

11 Erogenous Zones – Tips for Lesbian Sex

Tips for Lesbian Sex: 11 Erogenous Zones for Women that Every Lesbian Couple Must Explore If you are a lesbian couple interested in tips for lesbian sex, or simply sexually active with a woman, this information about erogenous zones is a must read for you. Let's start...

Foreplay Lesbian Style: Part 1 of 2

 I don't hear much talk about foreplay lesbian style   I've certainly heard my share of people ask, "How do lesbians have sex?" And, I know there is plenty of interest in lesbian sex advice and tips for lesbian sex, but I can't recall one question, ever, about...

Lesbian survey: Stereotypes – True or False

Lesbian Survey At asklesbians.com you will find this lesbian survey as well as the results of many others.  The series of questions answered by women-loving- women is designed to offer an accurate look into the lives of "real" lesbians.  No stereotypes, just real...

Strategy 26: Being Polite in Relationships

According to Dr. John Gottman, being polite in relationships is one of the first things to go.  Dating brings out the best in us.  We put our best, shinnyest foot forward, putting in extra effort to make a good impression.  We are eager to please.  Not surprisingly,...

Strategy 25: Nice Things to Say to People Helps Marriage Romance

Compliments are nice things to say to people, and by "people," I am including your partner - especially if you want to keep relationship / marriage romance alive!   Are you more likely to thank a waiter for bringing you a glass of water, or your partner?  If your...

Healthy Relationship Goals Examples and Checklist

Five Key Areas of Relationship Success and Healthy Relationship Goals Examples The Gottman Relationship Checkup is a 480 question, online assessment created by Dr's John and Julie Gottman.  With 40+ years of extensive scientific research on what makes relationships...

Healthy Relationship? Try the Gottman Relationship Checkup

The Gottman Relationship Checkup WHAT IS THE GOTTMAN RELATIONSHIP CHECKUP? The Gottman Relationship Checkup is an online healthy relationship assessment scale  that is comprised of 480 questions which cover five categories of importance to healthy and satisfying...

Happy Lesbian Couples Strategy 23 – Choose Love

Strategy 23:  Choose Love We choose love, because unlike attractions, love is a choice. For gays and lesbians, the word “choice” can mean a couple of things.  Let me clarify that in this context; I am not referring to the concept that you have a choice as to whom you...

Lesbian Love Guide – Strategy 21

Lesbian Love Guide: Focus on Outcome, Not Ego In one of my Couple’s workshops, I had a couple share with me that when they found themselves in battle over something small, one of them would interrupt the argument with the question: “Would you rather be right, or in...

Lesbian Couples Workshop – From Conflict to Connection

Lesbian Couples Workshop From Conflict to Connection (Part I) (workshop access in-person and online) SUNDAY, 9 APRIL 2017   |   09:00AM - 05:30PM   [video width="1280" height="720" mp4="https://micheleomara.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/Adobe-Spark-Video.mp4"...

Strategy 20 – John Gottman Says Lesbian Couples Do this Better

John Gottman tells all couples, including lesbian couples, that one of the Seven Principles of Making Marriage work is to allow your partner to influence you. For those of you sensitive to being “controlled,” be sure to note the difference between influence and...

Lesbian Couples (#19) – What “This Is Us” teaches us about love.

Lesbian Couples (#19) - What can we learn about happy relationships from "This is us"? Strategy 19:  Give to Give.  Not Give to Get. Have you been watching "This is Us?"  It's a new (2016) NBC series and I love it.  The entire show is based around a young couple who...

Lesbian Couples Strategy 18:

Lesbian Couples: Strategy 18 - Be Loving In order to feel love, you must be loving. Think about the start of your relationship and how you were driven to express your love. Perhaps you wrote notes and emails, sent flowers, called, left voice messages or text messages,...

Lesbian Sex FAQS: How many times weekly?

Lesbian Sex:  Frequently Asked Questions Series How many times does the average lesbian couple have sex per week? This is a question I asked 496 lesbians whom I surveyed in 2011 while working on my dissertation for my PhD in Clinical Sexology.  The topic of my...

Lesbian Couples Strategy # 17

Be Curious, Not Critical     When you become frustrated with your partner about something she has done, is your first instinct to be critical?  Lesbian couples who want happy relationships must lean into curiosity before launching any criticism.   Imagine...